Every year, there will always be a single period of time when everyone around you start turning back single.
the period has come.
Finding someone who you loves and loves you isnt that easy.
Do not neglect him/her just because your relationship have stablized because you never know the other party is drifting away because of your neglect. honeymoon period is over doesnt mean you do not need to put in any effort anymore.
At the same time, never keep your unhappiness to yourself. because if you never say it, the other party will never know. we should all stop believing that the other party SHOULD know what you are thinking. Face the reality, how can one person really know what you are thinking without you saying or showing anything. No doubt, people might argue that "not knowing how i feel just proves that you doesnt know me well enough" True that sometimes we know what other is thinking but it is quite near impossible for you to know what he/she is thinking completely. Bottling up doesnt solve the problem, you are just generating another huge unhappiness in your heart and one day when it accumumlate too huge, the balloon will eventually burst.
this is just food of thoughts of what i learned and what i seen.
its just how i see couples and even friend quarrel over these same issues over and over again, and never learning their lesson.
and PS. i am not refering me and dear. still love~
